tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8256678413800009806.post7830007865352766781..comments2020-09-23T17:04:34.148-07:00Comments on Saved Aspie: Where's *MY* Reward, HUH??SavedAspiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08711812514826013534noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8256678413800009806.post-852489551588459422011-08-13T20:09:58.200-07:002011-08-13T20:09:58.200-07:00Hi, I came across your blog a while back and decid...Hi, I came across your blog a while back and decided to visit again, after finally accepting that I have AS traits.<br />I'm a Christian as well, I don't belong to a church (left one and had bad experiences, but hope to find another soon). <br />Anyway, not to be TMI as well, although I've had premarital sex and a child OOW before getting saved, it is hard to remain celibate. I've been celibate for a couple of years now, it doesn't bother me that much, but I do miss the intimacy.<br />It's already a bad thing I got pregnant by a guy (a bad boy/thug) that "took care of my needs well", although it was wrong, it was not worth it. Not because of my child, but because of who he was.<br />I'm glad you took a stand, I wish you much luck and a nice guy will come along, marry you and you will get the marital bliss you deserve!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8256678413800009806.post-58818869382099310292011-02-16T19:24:29.906-08:002011-02-16T19:24:29.906-08:00Zhu and ICG thanks for your comments... I know the...Zhu and ICG thanks for your comments... I know the Lord is reserving me to a special purpose. <br /><br />I just ask Him to give me grace and strength to celebrate His work in my life, rather than be envious at those who disobey His word but still seem to get blessed more than me.SavedAspiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08711812514826013534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8256678413800009806.post-54142232056101004222011-02-12T17:59:56.439-08:002011-02-12T17:59:56.439-08:00I just want to let you know that there are good, s...I just want to let you know that there are good, single, Christian, middle-aged men out there. Perhaps not as many as would be convenient, but we do exist. My girlfriend was going through something similar to you before she met me. (Hopefully she isn't still going through it...) Be strong by letting God take care of you. <br /><br />I'm not trying to pull the "don't worry--it'll all be fine" garbage. We know the end of the story turns out in our favor, but the struggles persist in the meantime. <br /><br />To paraphrase from one of my favorite authors, A.W. Tozer: God wants us to be honest in our hurt and anger (just read the raw honesty in the Psalms), but He also desires that our ultimate pursuit be Him. I know that after I let my anger and frustration out, that I can return to God and He'll take care of me as the only person who truly knows me can.<br /><br />I'm sorry...it seems that the response rambled. (As you could guess, I am also an aspie.) I guess my summary statement is that you are not alone, that there is someone who knows you, knows your hurt and pain, and it is okay to vent to Him.ProfKnowsomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12981060249712483842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8256678413800009806.post-87907786170555199602011-02-11T22:33:05.547-08:002011-02-11T22:33:05.547-08:00I know how life can get rough, Sis. I've had p...I know how life can get rough, Sis. I've had purity issues, to, though nothing quite like this.<br /><br />The way I see it, life is a battle.<br /><br />Next time you feel a breakdown coming, bring in our Divine Ally. He knows, in a way greater than we could, what we're going through.<br /><br />We have to fight for things to be worth it. I should know that incredibly well.De Chaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00262684310935295017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8256678413800009806.post-36823837003755241072011-02-03T21:20:22.364-08:002011-02-03T21:20:22.364-08:00Thank you, Gavin, for those kind words!Thank you, Gavin, for those kind words!SavedAspiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08711812514826013534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8256678413800009806.post-51423162233228311902011-02-03T18:23:18.013-08:002011-02-03T18:23:18.013-08:00Sorry that you're having a down day but you...Sorry that you're having a down day but you're right to feel anger and resentment. Get it out of your system and you'll feel better.<br /><br />One thing that's clear from the bible is that it's full of temptation, sin and forgiveness. <br /><br />You can't be free from sin and you can't be perfect. <br /><br />In a world where members of major religious organisations are frequently caught indulging in not only premarital but also unconsenting, underage and un-celibrate sex, the "sin" of a middle aged woman in premarital sex seems petty indeed.<br /><br />You're entitled to Forgiveness, so perhaps you need to forgive yourself and cut yourself a little slack.Gavin Bollardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13833941398375568706noreply@blogger.com